By now, many women are aware of their body’s capabilities, know what they need to experience orgasm, and are familiar with the intense pleasure that comes from G-spot stimulation. However, there is always something new under the sun. For example, now we have the A-spot.

In reality, this isn’t such a new concept for the past few decades, the question has periodically arisen: does the a-spot the area around the cervix really respond very intensely to targeted, gentle stimulation? Since some women’s accounts suggest that this area’s stimulation can indeed lead to a special experience, several sexologists have been investigating the phenomenon since the 1980s.

Is it certain that it exists?

There are skeptics regarding the existence of this spot. There is currently no scientific proof that such a localized source of pleasure exists. While it is true that certain parts of the female external and internal genitalia respond more sensitively to stimulation, many believe it is a mistake to think that the alpha and omega of orgasm lie in one particular spot. They suggest thinking of this area as a broader erogenous zone. The entire few-centimeter area, which feels soft and slightly spongy to the touch, can sensitively react to stimulation.

What is the A-spot?

The A-spot (named from the anterior fornix – the anterior arch – which is considered an erogenous zone) is located in the vagina, just above the G-spot, on the front wall of the vagina, between the bladder and the cervix. Due to its location and its reactions to stimulation, it is also referred to as the female prostate. One characteristic of this spot is that its stimulation can lead to intense lubrication. With further gentle impulses, some women may experience pleasure that lasts up to 20 seconds longer and is more intense than usual. An added advantage is that this extra pleasure does not come with the unpleasant sensation of needing to urinate, unlike with G-spot orgasms. Moreover, stimulating this area can result in not only more robust orgasms (and not in every case), but also increased pelvic sensitivity and heightened sensory perception.

So, how should I find the A-spot?

These are contradictory theories, but you won’t lose much by seeing if A-spot stimulation works for you. Since this spot is deeper than the G-spot, it might be harder to reach, but if you succeed, the experience will be worth it.

We suggest trying it first by yourself. It’s good to know that the area swells slightly with arousal, making it easier to reach when you’re already a bit excited. Lie on your back with your legs pulled up and relax. With your palm facing down, insert your middle finger into your vagina, keeping it slightly bent as if you were pointing towards your navel. You can also use a vibrator, but it’s best to choose a slightly curved one and use it the same way. Once you’ve found the spot, you can stimulate it with gentle, light pressing. If you’re with a partner, the doggy style or missionary positions might work best, as these allow better control over the direction of stimulation. In missionary, place a pillow under your buttocks to raise your hips slightly, positioning your partner’s penis at the ideal angle for A-spot stimulation.

What if it doesn’t work?

No problem. Every woman is different, and it might just be that you don’t enjoy such deep probing. However, if the issue is simply that it doesn’t work the first time, it’s worth giving yourself a few more tries to get the hang of it. Those who have experienced the intense and deep orgasm from A-spot stimulation say it’s more than worth experimenting.